Proactively tell people/organisations when they have changed your actions/impact

By TJPHutton🔸 @ 2026-03-30T23:33 (+40)

Measuring and communicating impact is hard, particularly when focusing on community building over the long term.

You have a much better idea of what led to you starting a new role, changing your donations, etc, than anyone else could. It will take you 2-10 minutes to directly tell someone how they've impacted your trajectory[1] where they might take hours-to-forever to try to reach you and ask.

It seems likely that many community builders, orgs, and funders would get significant-value from additional impact stories[2].

It also seem very unlikely to be high-cost for any org to receive your impact story. At worst this is an unwanted email that needs to be processed.

So: think about how you got to where you are on your impact journey, and whether it would be beneficial to tell someone now.

And: when you make meaningful changes in the future, tell the people who helped make that happen.

 

  1. ^

    This includes confirming things i.e. "[I actually did the thing we talked about and here's what happened next]"

  2. ^

    During a recent funding application I got really positive feedback about a document I'd put together to support the application. That document was a barely-edited bullet-point-list with a handful of one or two sentence impact stories. The fact that this was so well received says something about the benchmark for receiving/sharing impact stories and was my motivation to write this post.


Bridget L 🔸 @ 2026-03-31T01:30 (+10)

Attributing your impact to any particular organisation or program can be quite difficult. A lot of people make changes after two EAGx attendances, a handful of local group interactions, building in-depth connections with certain people, etc.

But as a community builder trying to evaluate the impact of our programs, it would be really useful if someone reached out and said: "Hey, I think the 30-minute chat we had last year was maybe 5% influential in getting me to my current position, alongside X, Y, and Z other programs and influences." 5% influence for a 30-minute chat is a useful signal for us when evaluating a 1:1 program! But people are unlikely to share that, because there's usually a more substantial mentor or program that felt much more influential.


So beyond proactively telling people when they've changed your actions, it seems good to me if there was a norm of proactively sharing when something influenced you even a bit.
 

TJPHutton🔸 @ 2026-03-31T02:06 (+1)

Strong agree! My working title for this was "Tell people/orgs when they influence your impact" but that didn't scan as well.

James Herbert @ 2026-03-31T09:42 (+4)

So true! It's also just very nice to receive these messages 

Vasco Grilo🔸 @ 2026-04-01T16:09 (+2)

Agreed, Tom. Here is a related post from Kevin Xia.